Stop calling her crazy.
You pushed her to the breaking point.
You ignored her when she tried to communicate.
You dismissed her feelings for months.
You lied to her face repeatedly.
You disrespected her boundaries daily.
You made her question her own reality.
You gaslighted her until she couldn't trust herself.
Then act shocked when she snaps.
Then call her dramatic when she finally reacts.
Then label her crazy when she breaks down.
Then act like you don't know why she's upset.
You created the storm then complained about the rain.
You lit the match then blamed her for the fire.
You poked the bear then called it aggressive.
Her reaction is not the problem, your actions are.
Her anger is valid, your behavior caused it.
Her breakdown is reasonable, your treatment created it.
Her response makes sense, your choices don't.
Stop making her the villain for reacting to your chaos.
Stop calling her unstable when you're the one creating instability.
Stop labeling her emotional when you're the one being emotionally abusive.
She becomes broken by someone who claims to love her.
You don't get to break someone then judge how they heal.
Act accordingly to your intentions and deeds, the right ones, not the wrong ones.
Be compassionate and loving, if you want to receive the same.
Fight those who fight you.
Give good words, of- understanding, respect, forgivness, acceptance, discipline, of loving and peacefulness, to try hard in every situation and never give up, to learn and to read, to lead on the right paths, to purify thyself and others, to call to monotheism and to the religion of truth, to try to search, learn and find out what is truly said in the torah, injeel and Quran, and all other 50 books of the prophets, and the book of the black coloured pharaoh the one who should have been muslim and a leder of truth and the right, who should have been another one of the messengers, and the book of good, Iman, the truth one, go- her book, her books and her first book, to fight in the cause of Her cause, Gods and the messengers, the prophets, the martyrs, and the believers cause- with your lives and your health, the ones that are following maaj's (the water)'s trials, the old Lord and His wisdoms' trials, Her trials (Imans- the True one), the heavenly realms trials to the mankind and those on earth [they are puttning you to test each and every atom and second of your life and time], give good words of the good wisdom and the trials of the water that are testning you to become the better of yourself, to strive in the cause of the heavenly realms- the seven of them and the other creations that you are unaware of, give good words that you are put to the test when you are tested- will you survive against the hidden creations and the other creations that you are unaware of, a good advise is to be godfearing and pious and afraid of the evil that is hidden from you in the test, give good words to the patient ones when they are tested (but they have to succeed in the trial if they want to be victorious, how then? mind yourself, think, feel, trust, hope, pray, dont despair, fear, try yourself for purity in your heart, breast, mind and soul, learn about the chakran (dont cover your head if you want to be a believer, learn about the forehead and the highest chakra, and all of them), dont follow buddhism-follow the torahs chakran if there would have been in the book, but hey! You are always put to the test- dont believe falsehood or the evil ones when they try your chakran, your life, your body, your human, your thoughts, your feelings, your chest, your mind- try your best to be pious, truthful and good- to yourself, to your neighbour, to your friend, to the traveller, to your mirror (in the hidden), give good words of a warner and a reminder and those who warn and remind in truthfulness and who are just- for your best sake (the wise one, the truth ones, the belivers, the just, the steadfast, the honoured, the loyal ones, the good doers, the cooperative ones, the friendly, the ones you can trust, the solidary ones, the ones who knows the value of every important value).